From now on this is how you will talk to yourself:
I am smart. I am great. I am wonderful. I am successful. I am consistent. I have fun. I love to learn. I am adventurous. I love to experiment. I am a smart businessman/woman. I design my life. I am [insert your own desired description of yourself].
These are the words you need to repeat several times a day. The US Navy Seals are taught positive self-talk to accomplish their missions.
Do this and watch your life improve, fast.
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